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03月28日升旗仪式:十年级5班

来源:北京昌平新东方外国语学校 作者:十年级5班 发布时间:2016-03-28 18:21

我们的心态决定我们的人生

       佛说:物随心转,境由心造,烦恼皆由心生。所以要么是我们去驾驭生命,要么是生命驾驭我们。我们的心态决定谁是坐骑,谁是骑师。我们不能延长生命的长度,但我们可以扩展它的宽度;我们不能改变天气,但我们可以左右自己的心情;我们不可以控制环境,但我们可以调整自己的心态。一个人有什么样的精神状态就会产生什么样的生活现实,这是勿庸置疑的。生活中,一个好的心态,可以帮我们乐观豁达;一个好的心态,可以帮我们战胜面临的苦难;一个好的心态,可以帮我们淡泊名利,过上真正快乐的生活。

      苏东坡与僧人佛印是好朋友,一天,苏东坡对佛印说:“以大师慧眼看来,吾乃何物?”佛印说:“贫僧眼中,施主乃我佛如来金身。”苏东坡听朋友说自己是佛,自然很高兴。可他见佛印胖胖堆堆,却想打趣他一下,笑曰:“然以吾观之,大师乃牛屎一堆。”佛印听苏东坡说自己是“牛屎一堆”,并未感到不快,只是说:“佛由心生,心中有佛,所见万物皆是佛;心中是牛屎,所见皆化为牛屎。”吃亏的倒是大才子苏东坡。的确,如果我们在学校经常是从太阳升起时就盼中午吃饭,吃完午饭又盼晚饭,之后又盼着快点睡觉,那么这样的一天天也是过,不过最后混个大学出去,回来说起来也算是个海归,可是自己其实是什么样的自己很清楚;而每天给自己定下紧凑合理的计划,在日程满满压力山大的时候依然给自己信心的话,你又有什么理由不抱得名校录取凯旋而归呢。一个人以一种什么样的眼光看世界,他的世界大概就是什么样的吧。

      人生有顺境也有逆境,不可能处处是逆境;人生有巅峰也有谷底,不可能处处是谷底。因为顺境或巅峰而趾高气扬,因为逆境或低谷而垂头丧气,都是浅薄的人生。面对挫折,如果只是一味地抱怨、生气,那么你注定永远是个弱者。古往今来,许多人之所以失败,究其原因,不是因为无能,而是因为不自信。自信是一种力量,更是一种动力。当你不自信的时候,你难于做好事情;当你什么也做不好时,你就更加不自信。这是一种恶性循环。若想从这种恶性循环中解脱出来,就得与失败作斗争,就得树立牢固的自信心。虽然行动不一定会成功,但不行动则一定不会成功。人生在世一场,我们没有理由去碌碌无为。既然生在这个时代,就应该让自己的人生流光溢彩。一个人的目标是从梦想开始的,一个人的幸福是从心态上把握的,而一个人的成功则是在行动中实现的。

      除此之外,命里有时终须有,命里无时莫强求。不要去强求那些不属于自己的东西,要学会适时的放弃。也许在你殚精竭虑时,会得到曾经想要而没得到的东西,让你在此时有意外的收获。适时放弃是一种智慧,它会让你更加清醒地审视自身内在的潜力和外界的因素,会让你疲惫的身心得到调整,成为一个快乐明智的人。

      我们同时还需要懂得舍得。盲目的坚持不如理智的放弃。苦苦地挽留夕阳的人是傻人,久久地感伤春光的人是蠢人。什么也舍不得放弃的人,往往会失去更加珍贵的东西。适当的时候,给自己一个机会,学会放弃,才有可能获得。

      总而言之,我们的心态对于我们现在的生活和一辈子的人生都有很大的影响。摆正我们的心态,不要让自己的情绪控制自己的头脑,让一场由自己主宰的人生焕发出亮丽的光彩,不也是很好么?

 

 

Our Life is subject to Our Attitude

Buddha says: our minds change things, make surroundings, as well as cause troubles. According to this, either life controls us or we control life. Our attitudes decide who is the horse and who is the jockey. We cannot extend the length of life, but we can control our emotions; we cannot control surroundings, but we can adjust our attitudes. It is scientifically true that a person's positive mental state can help turn one's dream into reality. In our life, a positive attitude can help us overcome difficulties and enjoy a happy life.

Su Dongpo and Fo Yin were good friends. One day Su said to Fo, "which thing do you think I am similar to?" Fo answered, "in my eyes, you are similar to a Buddha." Su felt happy to hear his friend compare him to a Buddha. Yet, he wanted to play a joke with Fo about his overweight. Su said: "in my opinion, I think you are a pile of dung." Fo wasn't unhappy about Su's words. He just said, "if you have a Buddha in your mind, you will treat everything as a Buddha. If you have a pile of dung in your mind, you'll treat everything as dung." So the famous Su lost the debate. In fact, if in the morning we count hours for lunch, and after lunch we wait for dinner, and after dinner we expect to go to bed, we will probably end up in a low-level university. Although we may become a so-called "haigui" after graduation from college, we know our real situation clearly. However, if you have a busy and feasible plan and believe in yourself even when you undergo great pressure, there is no reason you will not go to a great college. The vision through which you look at the world, may decide  your real world as in your vision.

Normally, we sometimes are in smooth water and sometimes may face hardship. But we will not always stay in the rock bottom of life. It's useless to complain or be conceited. If you choose to do that, you may be a weak person. Through the ages, the reason that lots of people are losers isn't that they can't do it, but they are not confident enough. Confidence is power and motivation. When you aren't confident, it's possible that you may fail in your work; when you fail in your work, you will be more diffident. To get out of this vicious circle, we must enhance our confidence. Although we aren't sure whether we will succeed, we can never succeed if we do nothing. As human beings, we are not predestined to be commonplace existence. So long as we live in this decade, we should make our life extraordinary. A person's future starts with a dream. A person's happiness is influenced by attitudes. A person's success will come true in actions.

Besides, don't ask for those that don't belong to you. You should give up sometimes. Giving up is a kind of intelligence. It makes you clearly know your capability, scrutinize your surroundings, and relax your tired body. This helps to shape you as a happy and intelligent person. You should know when to get something and when to give it up. The person who tries to stop the setting sun is stupid. The person who doesn't want to lose anything often loses the most precious one. So when appropriate, give yourself a chance. Knowing when and how to give up, you will have a better chance to earn the future.

All in all, our attitudes can deeply influence our present life and our future. Change our attitude, and do not let our emotions control our minds. It is very good to make a self-governed life superior, isn't it?

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